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So I never know how to start these things but I want to start doing things like this. About a month ago at my church a gentleman stopped me and told me he felt he was supposed to tell me that I have a voice and I need to use it, that I have something important to say. Also that I need to do what is needed to get there. That Moses had to part the Red Sea in order to step through it. I believe you need to go through the hard things to make the good that much better. You see this last year has definitely been one of the hardest for me personally. Like I lost my cousin a year ago to suicide, he actually passed away on Christmas Day. He was definitely one of my favorite family members and always made sure that I felt seen. I miss him deeply, I felt so alone this summer with that and losing a job that I loved(most days) over a false accusation. I hated people so much for it. I wanted to tell everyone what that person did. I know who did it, even if it’s supposed to be “anonymous” (she didn’t...

Why is "sports fan" okay but "Fangirl" isn't?

 This is something that has been on my mind a lot lately. Why can men/boys be fans of sports teams and all that and scream and all that, but when women/girls do it, it is looked down upon? Like they're doing the same things yet it is manly for a man to do it, but crazy when women/girls do it. I am a fan girl of many different artists and love so many. Like I hate that people who like music are looked down upon in so many aspects but if you love sports you're great. I've never been a sporty person. I mean I played softball when I was younger but like music has always been my passion.  I think that we need to relook at how we treat people for loving what they love. I'm not crazy, nor are any of the many friends I have due to the music artists that I love. Okay so this was just a really quick post while my kids in my class are napping at work.  TTFN, Kathy